To engage your reader, it's important to always show not tell the traits of your characters. The character trait "Confused" can be described as a state of being uncertain or lacking clarity in one's thoughts, emotions, or actions. A confused character may struggle to make decisions, express themselves clearly, or understand their own motivations or the motivations of those around them. This trait can add depth and complexity to a character, as well as create opportunities for internal conflict and growth.

Possible causes of being confused

You might want to weave these into your character's back story to build a more believable character.

• Mental health issues such as anxiety or depression
• Overthinking and analyzing situations
• Poor communication skills
• Trauma or past experiences affecting their perspective
• Lack of clear values or beliefs
• Difficulty making decisions
• Low self-esteem or self-doubt
• Inability to prioritize or manage tasks effectively
• Exposure to conflicting or contradictory information or beliefs

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Behaviors associated with being confused

You may be able to show your character's trait of confused by using these.

• Pausing or hesitating before speaking or acting
• Changing one's mind frequently
• Feeling overwhelmed or disoriented
• Appearing lost or uncertain
• Making mistakes or errors in judgment
• Asking questions or seeking clarification
• Frowning or furrowing the brow
• Repeating oneself or asking for repetition
• Forgetting details or information

Attitudes associated with being confused

You may be able to show confused through their attitudes.

• Disorientation
• Uncertainty
• Hesitation
• Anxiety
• Ambiguity
• Indecision
• Perplexity
• Bewilderment
• Doubt
• Lack of clarity
• Frustration

Thoughts and struggles associated with being confused

Here are some ideas for things your confused character may think or struggle with.

• Difficulty in making decisions or sticking to a course of action
• Feeling overwhelmed or paralyzed by conflicting information or emotions
• Feeling lost or disconnected from themselves and others
• Questioning their beliefs, values, or assumptions about the world
• Difficulty in communicating their thoughts and feelings to others
• Inner conflict and lack of clarity about their identity or purpose
• Doubt and indecision about their choices and decisions
• Self-doubt and lack of confidence in their abilities or judgment
• Fear of making the wrong decision or disappointing others

Emotions associated with being confused

Here are some ideas for emotions your confused character may experience.

• Disorientation
• Doubt
• Indecision
• Perplexity
• Uncertainty
• Frustration
• Hesitation
• Bewilderment
• Ambiguity

Facial expressions associated with being confused

Here are some facial expressions your confused character may exhibit.

• Pursed lips
• Furrowed eyebrows
• Rubbing the eyes
• Scratching the head or chin
• Looking around in different directions
• Squinting eyes
• Tilted head
• Mouth slightly open
• Blinking rapidly

Body language associated with being confused

Here is some body language your confused character may exhibit.

• Fidgeting or pacing
• Eyes widening or squinting
• Looking around or searching for something
• Mouth slightly open or lips pursed
• Shaking head or rubbing chin
• Pausing or stuttering in speech
• Furrowed eyebrows or forehead wrinkles
• Tilted head or head scratching
• Hesitant movements or gestures

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Behaviors associated with being confused

Here are some behaviors your confused character may exhibit.

• Making mistakes or errors in judgment
• Forgetting details or information
• Asking questions or seeking clarification
• Pausing or hesitating before speaking or acting
• Changing one's mind frequently
• Frowning or furrowing the brow
• Appearing lost or uncertain
• Feeling overwhelmed or disoriented
• Repeating oneself or asking for repetition

Growth and evolution of confused characters

Here are some ways that your confused character may grow and evolve over time.

• Develop problem-solving skills
• Learn to trust their instincts
• Let go of fear and anxiety
• Develop empathy and understanding for others
• Start to ask questions and seek answers
• Become more self-aware
• Learn to accept and embrace change
• Learn to communicate effectively
• Gain clarity and understanding

Stereotypes of confused characters to avoid

Try to avoid writing stereotypical confused character like these examples.

• Don't use the Confused trait as a crutch to avoid giving the character real goals or motivations.
• Avoid making the Confused character overly anxious or paranoid.
• Avoid making the Confused character one-dimensional or lacking in depth.
• Avoid making the Confused character overly passive or indecisive.
• Don't rely solely on the Confused character for comic relief.
• Avoid making the Confused character seem clueless or incompetent.
• Don't make the Confused character appear helpless or overly dependent on others.

Negatives of being confused

Here are some potential negatives of being confused. Note: These are subjective and some might also be seen as positives depending on the context.

• Inconsistent behavior or actions
• Lack of direction or purpose
• Feeling overwhelmed and anxious
• Inability to focus on tasks
• Difficulty making decisions
• Tendency to procrastinate or avoid responsibilities
• Struggles with problem-solving
• Poor communication skills
• Reduced self-esteem and confidence

Positives of being confused

Here are some potential positives of being confused. Note: These are subjective and some might also be seen as negatives depending on the context.

• Confusion can be an opportunity for growth and learning.
• Confusion can also lead to self-reflection and introspection, allowing you to better understand yourself and your values.
• It can be a catalyst for creativity and innovation, as confusion often sparks new and unconventional ideas.
• It can be a humbling experience that encourages empathy and understanding towards others who may be going through similar confusion.
• It can help you to become more open-minded and receptive to new ideas.
• Confusion can also help you to develop problem-solving skills and the ability to think critically.

Verbal expressions of confused characters

Here are some potential expressions used by confused characters.

• "I'm lost"
• "I'm perplexed"
• "I'm confused"
• "I'm not sure I follow"
• "I don't understand"
• "I'm at a loss"
• "What do you mean?"
• "This doesn't make sense"
• "I'm bewildered"

Relationships of confused characters

Here are some ways that being confused could affect your character's relationships.

• Confused people may have trouble communicating their thoughts and feelings clearly, leading to misunderstandings in their relationships.
• They may have a tendency to be indecisive or wishy-washy, which can frustrate their partners or friends who are looking for clear direction.
• Confused individuals may seek validation and approval from others, which can make them susceptible to being manipulated or controlled.
• They may struggle to set boundaries, which can lead to them being taken advantage of or feeling overwhelmed.

Examples from books of characters who are confused

• Ignatius J. Reilly from "A Confederacy of Dunces" by John Kennedy Toole
• Meursault from "The Stranger" by Albert Camus
• Oedipus from "Oedipus Rex" by Sophocles
• Holden Caulfield from "The Catcher in the Rye" by J.D. Salinger
• Alice from "Alice's Adventures in Wonderland" by Lewis Carroll
• Hamlet from "Hamlet" by William Shakespeare
• Gregor Samsa from "The Metamorphosis" by Franz Kafka
• Winston Smith from "1984" by George Orwell
• Esther Greenwood from "The Bell Jar" by Sylvia Plath

Writing exercises for writing confused characters

Here are some writing exercises you might try for learning to write confused characters.

• Write a scene where the confused character is trying to follow a complicated set of instructions.
• Write a scene where the confused character is struggling to understand a complex concept or idea.
• Write a scene where the confused character is trying to make a decision but is unsure of what to do.
• Write a scene where the confused character is lost and trying to find their way.
• Write a scene where the confused character is trying to communicate with someone who speaks a different language or has a different perspective.
• Write a scene where the confused character is confronted with conflicting information or opinions.
• Write a scene where the confused character is dealing with a sudden change or unexpected turn of events.
• Write a scene where the confused character is questioning their own beliefs or values.
• Write a scene where the confused character is overwhelmed with too many options or possibilities.